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6/22/2022

6 Steps to Stop Worrying About Money

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​In a world run by corporations - money is the ultimate goal. The thin piece of paper is no longer a tool to make your life more comfortable—life has become a tool to make money. So, it’s not a surprise that having and gaining money gives you a headache. What if you can’t provide a good home for your family? Will you be able to find the right place to live and work within your budget? However, being tense about your savings won’t help you achieve your goals. So, we provided you with 6 secure steps to help you stop worrying about money.

1. Reset your mindset

​Begin by expressing some empathy for your own situation. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Take a deep breath instead of obsessing about what went wrong. Get yourself in the correct mindset and convince yourself that you can solve this problem. You’ll be able to make better judgments if you stop criticizing your every move. Unless you can get yourself in the appropriate frame of mind, you will never be able to solve anything. As a result, before tackling your financial problems, you should practice self-compassion and being happy even if you’re not content with your finances at the moment.

​Seek help

​There’s no shame in being overwhelmed by everyday worries—money included. Sometimes, it’s best to take a deep breath and admit that you are in too deep and you need help. That’s a huge step! It’s not a bad idea to seek assistance from a professional. They will offer the best advice for improving your mental health, and good mental health is a base for every improvement.
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Mental health is the most important thing to preserve to go forward.

​2. Get factual

​Do you know that saying, “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a present, a gift we should cherish?” You probably overstress about the “what ifs” and “would-be-nices.” Stop doing that. Evaluate your present situation realistically and appreciate all that you have at this moment, no matter how small you think that is. Put all the things on paper and get ready to make a plan. 

​3. Make a strategy to stop worrying about money

A good strategy is half of the success. Having a strategy in place can allow you to better manage your finances. Begin by being open and honest with yourself about your current debt situation. Every good strategist knows that starting small and making a slow build-up is the wise thing to do. So, regardless of the interest rate, make a list of all your obligations in ascending order of size. Pay off the lowest debt first and then work your way up, paying the next smallest obligation first and so on. Once a debt is paid in full, the freed-up money rises exponentially and is hurled at the next one.

​4. Use the gift of technology

The good news is that technology works in your favor. Digital budgeting tools and applications may make money management simpler and provide strategies that are proven to work. You may tap into them by following these tips:
  • Keep an eye on your expenditures and cut out everything that isn’t required. A wide range of budgeting apps keeps tabs on your credit cards and bank accounts, giving you a complete picture of your money. These tools might help you detect and minimize excessive costs
  • Make a budget and stick to it. You may alleviate some of the pressure of financial stress by setting a particular savings goal, such as saving up for a down payment or saving up enough money for a major purchase. Determine how much money each month you’ll need to save to accomplish your goal with a financial goal calculator
  • Keep an eye out for digital discounts and bargain sites. Be on the lookout for online coupons and offers before you go shopping either at the store or online. Many websites and applications are committed to assisting customers in locating the most cost-effective deals
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Smart technology today makes saving and budget planning a lot easier.

5. Respect your limits

​Even with the technology working in your favor and doing all the calculations for you, it’s quite easy to get carried away. You know that you should be saving, but that low-cost flight to Bali sure seems tempting, right? However, it’s crucial not to give in to these thoughts. Even making a small stretch to your budget can psychologically induce the downfall of your whole saving plan. So, this is the part where you need to be a little strict and respect the boundaries you set. 
This is especially important if you’re planning on a major and expensive change in life, like relocation or buying a new home. Professional movers often say that it’s crucial to stay within your limits when making a relocation budget in order to make your move as painless as possible.

​6. Secure your retirement

​If you worry about your future, you probably worry about your retirement too. So, It’s important to start saving early and automate your savings approach as much as possible. Your long-term financial picture will improve just by having a solid retirement plan. You can take advantage of 401(k) if provided by your employer, or you can start an Individual Retirement Account (IRA). You can open a myRA account even if you’re dealing with a financial setback after the pandemic and have just a few dollars to spare. Little by little, it will add up by the time the retirement comes. 
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Saving for your retirement doesn’t have to be extensive if you’re not in the situation at the moment.

Conclusion

​Stressing about money is stressing about existence. That is the world that we live in at the moment, so it’s perfectly normal. However, giving in to the pressures of capitalist society will not help you as an individual in any way. So, be sure to follow these six steps we provided you with, stop worrying about money, and step into the journey of mental health, pure happiness, and joy of living. Remember - money doesn’t create your happiness. You do. 
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6/15/2022

Marriage and Senior Couples: How to Make It Work

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Many seniors have opened their hearts to enjoying another chance at love in their golden years. For some, they've found their second soulmate, while others are enjoying love for the first time. One thing's for certain: It's never too late to fall in love and tie the knot. Although used to a life of independence, seniors can find creative ways to navigate marriage and merge lives. The key is deciding how much to merge while building a life together. 

​Ways to Merge in Married Life

​There are many ways to combine your previously well-established lifestyles while still maintaining your independence. 

Buy a Home

As a married couple, you may wish to gain an asset together by investing in property. If you already have your own home, consider renting it out. Rental income could cover the costs of your new home and give you an added sense of security. Seniors should also consider their estate plan, inheritance rights, and other legal issues before purchasing.
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Owning multiple properties does mean you can — as a couple — decide which house you'd like to make your home.  

Start a Business Together

​When you enter the second phase of your business life, you're armed with wisdom, experience, and clarity. Whether you need to generate income or not, starting a small business together is a fantastic way to keep busy and deepen the connection with your loved one. Business ideas can include anything from a tax consultation or dog walking business to concierge and gift-wrapping services.
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Accounting software is an essential tool for managing your finances. Choose accounting software that automates your invoicing and tracks your expenses so you can save time and effort that would otherwise be spent on manual record-keeping. In addition, accounting software can help you to stay organized and keep track of your income and expenses. This can be particularly helpful during tax season, when you need to provide accurate information to the IRS. 

​Find a Shared Passion

You may have heard the old adage, "Couples who play together stay together." You have a lifetime of hobbies and well-established interests. Find something new that you're both interested in doing — it'll inject a sense of fun into your marriage. Whether it's joining a hiking club, book club, or cooking club, there's no shortage of options available. Finding a fun common ground is key to the longevity of a marriage. 

​Combine Finances

​The older you get, the more complex your financial history may become. When entering your marriage, be transparent about your debt, assets, and financial situation. If you support family members, let your partner know. You may want to merge household and travel accounts but keep your own separate savings accounts. Alternatively, some senior couples merge all accounts and debt, which is another option. It's important to keep the lines of communication open and discuss how you'll manage your daily money. 

Making a Life Together

​Creating a new life of coupledom can take some adjusting, but sharing the load is worth the effort. It's quite possible to maintain independence while simultaneously sharing everything. 
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6/8/2022

A Resource Guide for Remote Workers Who Have Lost Their Jobs

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​Working remotely offers many benefits, giving you flexibility in terms of when and where you work. If you've lost your remote job recently, you might be worried that you'll never enjoy this kind of freedom again. Don't despair. There are many remote jobs available out there. This resource guide provides the tips and tools you need to find your next role.

Update Your Professional Profile

Prepare your profile to increase the odds of a positive job search.
  •  Update your LinkedIn profile to boost your brand and show that you're job hunting.
  • Revamp your resume to make it fitting for remote job applications.
  • Write tailor-made cover letters for the positions that you want to apply to.

Know Where to Look for Work

Here are some resources to help you find your next remote job.
  •  ​Check out online job platforms that are dedicated specifically to remote gigs.
  • Consider freelancing to fill the gaps until you get a full-time remote gig. There are also online platforms that focus specifically on temporary and gig remote work.
  • Try niche-specific platforms. For example, there are platforms just for tech jobs.

Consider Starting Your Own Company

If you don't find a remote job you love, follow these steps to start your own company.
  •  Write a business plan to sketch out the details of your company.
  • Register in Texas, creating a formal legal entity for your company that protects your personal liability.
  • Get inspiration from other people who are carving out a remote career or starting their own business

Invest in the Tools You Need to Succeed

 Once you land your new gig, set yourself up for success with the right technology.
  •  Research video conferencing technology you can use for remote meetings.
  • Look into other technologies you can implement for remote work, like project management tools and cloud computing platforms.
  • Create an ergonomic workspace to make remote work more comfortable.
Losing your job can be difficult emotionally. However, don't let this setback get you down. Rest assured that there are many remote roles available these days. Use the resources above to help find the one that's right for you.
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